Sunday, May 13, 2007

"You're Late!" (text)

You’re late! What’s your excuse?! Are you late for everything? The majority of people tend to be late; late for dinner, late for lunch, late for meetings, late for appointments, late their own funeral. Punctuality is a lost art.
Why? Part of it is poor planning. We like to blame our lateness on traffic, the weather, the cat or the dog, or best of all, some other person. We’ve all done that, right? “I’m late because so and so made me late”. That’s it, take the easy way out, and blame someone else. Poor planning, and our subsequent lateness, is a result of not allowing a proper amount of time for events and transition. We think we can magically transport ourselves through space instantaneously. So, examine your planning and time management.
The second, and more important, deep underlying reason we’re late is we don’t respect other people. That’s right—we don’t respect people, and that is terrible. By showing up late, to any function, what we are communicating to the other person or people is that “You’re not important”. Yep—that’s the message we’re sending. And if you don’t respect the other people, and the most valuable thing they possess—their time, then how can you expect them to respect you?
Next time you tell someone to meet at a certain time, make sure you’re there, on time!

Key Words

Punctuality-n-arriving on time, efficient with time.

Subsequent-adj-something that follows, the next thing.

Instantaneously-adv-very quickly, the very next moment.

Underlying-adj-the root cause of something, the real reason (which may be hidden).

Respect-v-honor shown to another person or thing.

3 comments:

Unknown said...

I won't late to see your video and I really like your teaching stytle in Advanced. Thank you for bringing me so much fun in studying English^^.

Unknown said...

That is why nowadays people demand everything "right now". If they get rid of poor planning and everyone can deliver their work /service on time, then we can better synchronize different steps in our life.

LIBRA said...

Hellow~ Bill. This is Cynthia. I met you last Friday on the Bible study. The useful phrase you share in your blog is so helpful to us. Regarding to this article, I want to give my feedback. I try to be on time all the time. I think it is a way to respect others and a basic attitude in life. But some of my friends are always late. I will be angry at that and don't want to go out with them if it happens many times. I know I should not use my requirements to put on others. It is unfair. But it is hard for me to balance that. As I learned from the parable last month, we should forgive other seventy-seven instead of seven times. It is my goal next step.

Thanks a lot.

Best Regards,

Cynthia